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Three of Hearts

One woman. Two men. One bed. How does this work?

Three of Hearts: A Postmodern Family is a heartfelt documentary chronicling the long-term "trinogamous" relationship between Sam Cagnina, Steven Margolis and Samantha Singh.

Director Susan Kaplan began filming this stable, loving menage-a-trois after the relationship had already been going on for nine years, just as the three are about to have a baby. Kaplan's film follows this unique union through the stresses of rearing children and establishing a business, painting a compelling portrait of a truly alternative style of living.

Critics have called the film "poignant", "riveting" and "fascinatingly strange". In the midst of media buzz surrounding same-sex unions, constitutional amendments and polygamous TV shows, it's enlightening to watch this story of real people grappling with real issues as they pursue very everyday goals — love and happiness — within a framework that is anything but everyday.

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40th Birthday

Sam is really nervous about his birthday party and doesn't trust that Samantha and Steven can plan a party for him. After three days of cooking, Steve and Samantha prove Sam wrong.

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Babysitting

Steven decided to leave the family before child Summit was born. Steven explains his confusion with the family, and why he had to leave while he babysits the kids.

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Sam Cagnina, Sr.

Sam shares his frustration about being raised by a mobster.

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Samantha's Birthday

Samantha's entire family comes out for her birthday. She explains how her parents are probably not happy with her decision to raise a family with two gay men.

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Screenplay Meeting

Samantha and Sam work on their screenplay about Sam's father and brother.

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